For some couples, love-making may become less frequent after the menopause but intercourse does not need to be the main focus for a couple to enjoy an intimate and deeply rewarding relationship. Find time for romance and explore ways to show your love for each other. If it has been a long time since you had sex, enjoy being together, touching and caressing each other. Set the scene with candles and use body oils for a sensual massage to make you feel intimate with each other. If you are both relaxed and happy with each other, sex will be a natural progression.